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Today we are going to talk about how to be happy in marriage.
The main problem is that women lose their confidence after giving birth. This issue
and discomfort starts when a woman becomes pregnant. The man feels left behind because
he is "a boy" who's Mummy doesn't caress him anymore as his wife is busy with her pregnancy
and he doesn't understand this process because the woman is involved with the pregnancy,
while he is not. At this moment unfaithfulness often takes place because he seeks someone
else who will stroke and caress him. We will talk about this issue shortly.
As my favourite psychotherapist, Dilya Enikeeva, the president of Russian Association of sexologists
and psychiatrists, who I am studying from, says: "If you meet a man who has never betrayed
then please get his autograph for me." As a general piece of advice, don't get too excited
about this problem, but today we are talking about why this happens. The first main reason
is that your husband's mothers didn't discuss these matters with her son when his wife was
pregnant and he was about to become a father. This is a most precious time, and the wife
needs to be supported, etc. In principle, this is a cultural issue and it's a way of
being brought up, but this -- although it is not ideal - is what generally occurs in
our culture. Therefore, we can bring up our own sons differently and rely on our own experiences,
for better results in the future. At the beginning we are talking about what
we are having in our lives at the present time. The culture of supporting the pregnant
wife during pregnancy, labour and helping with children is absent in general. On the
few occasions when this is actually done it only happens for a few lucky individuals.
Therefore, that's why everything ends up on our shoulders. Let me tell you a Russian anecdote.
Vasilisa the Beautiful married Ivan with his surname the Fool and became Vasilisa the Fool.
Then she decided that this was not very good, and decided to re-make her husband into Ivan
the Beautiful, rather than letting him remain as Ivan the Fool. We are going to do the same.
For this there are many good techniques, and many methods. One of them is the TAO system
which is an eastern philosophy about what is a woman and what is a man. A woman who
is full of eroticism and *** energy has a hormone system on a higher level. She is
always in a good mood and always happy and the most important thing is that she never
loses this perspective in any of life's circumstances. This condition you can reach by using different
methods. One of the best methods is by using a training stimulator which I'm going to show
you and explain about. The second part is sensuality. We have to
immerse ourselves in what nature and life gives to us. Everything you like to do you
must do to the maximum. If you like flowers your house must be full of flowers. If you
like music you must listen to music. This is a natural source of increasing your hormone
level and improving your mood. This is your support and foundation. Our Earth and life
gives all kind of resources for a woman to satisfy her feelings. And the woman is receiving
everything in the form of emotions, experiencing feelings, and during sex she is sharing her
conditions with a man and the man is having an ***. If the woman's internal world is
fulfilling and varied then the man will have a stronger ***. From this point of view
don't be afraid of your partner's mistresses. This is true for all married women because
for the man sex as such is not the most important thing. For a man, it is important that he
feels that he is the one man who can give pleasure to his beloved woman; this is a response
reaction, and therefore it is deeply important to a man that we understand him and really
love him helping him to feel confident in this life and able to reach the goals he wants.
In reality we are the soil for him and he is the seed. The better the soil, the better
the seed will sprout and grow. That's why we recharge and strengthen ourselves. During
this training there will be a lot of advice given in terms of how we can do this in our
stressful lives with the many responsibilities we have. We will also learn things we can
easily and simply apply in addition to those things that happen naturally.
We can also do special exercises in order to boost our hormone levels quite high, because
this affects the length of your life, our health, our feelings and our relationships.
Everything is based on this. To start with I want to talk about this intimate
side of life and I will tell you a little bit about the TAO foundation.
However, let's pause for some champagne, and then we will carry on later.