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>> PREVIOUSLY, ON
MARRIED TO JONAS...
>> SO IS THIS THE TIME YOU TELL
US THAT YOU GUYS ARE ABOUT TO
HAVE A BABY?
>> YOU NEED TO GET BACK OUT
THERE AND TOUR, OBVIOUSLY.
>> AND TOWARDS THE END OF THE
PREGNANCY, YOU WILL NEED TO BE
WITH DANIELLE FOR THREE OR FOUR
MONTHS OF THAT.
>> BUT WE NEVER HAVE A SAY-SO.
NOT EVEN "WE."
I NEVER HAVE A SAY-SO IN
ANYTHING.
[rock music]
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[gate squeaks]
>> WE NEED TO WD-40 THAT.
IT'S BEEN A WHILE SINCE DANI AND
I VISITED MY FAMILY IN TEXAS.
THE JONAS WORLD TOUR IS ABOUT TO
START, AND SO I REALLY WANT TO
SPEND SOME QUALITY FAMILY TIME
WITH THEM BEFORE WE GET GOING.
HELLO?
>> HEY!
>> HEY.
NICK MIGHT BE COMING TO TEXAS AS
WELL.
ANY TIME WE ACTUALLY GET TO HANG
OUT AS A FULL FAMILY, IT MEANS A
LOT TO ME.
>> I JUST PUT OUT A LITTLE, UH,
VEGGIES.
>> OH, THANK GOD.
I AM SO HUNGRY, AND I HAVE GOT
TO PEE SO BAD.
>> [laughs]
>> THAT'S HOW YOUR DAD GREETS ME
ALL THE TIME.
"HI, I LOVE YOU.
I GOTTA GO TO THE BATHROOM."
I'M LIKE, "YOU KNOW YOU DO THIS
TO ME ALL--"
>> AS OPPOSED TO THE--
[laughs]
[toilet flushing]
>> WELCOME.
I'M SO EXCITED YOU GUYS ARE
HERE.
>> YAY, I'M SO GLAD.
YOU GUYS HAVEN'T BEEN HERE
FOREVER.
>> I WAS JUST TALKING TO
SOMEBODY, AND THEY'RE LIKE, "SO
YOU'RE GOING TO YOUR PARENTS'
HOUSE?"
AND I WAS LIKE, "YEAH," AND THEN
I STOPPED MYSELF, AND WENT, "NO,
ACTUALLY, NO, IT'S--IT'S MY
HOUSE TOO, ACTUALLY."
I WAS LIKE, "NO, THAT'S MY
HOUSE."
>> YEAH, THAT'S WHY I TELL YOU--
>> THIS IS THE JONAS COMPOUND.
>> THE JONAS COMPOUND IS RIGHT
OUTSIDE OF DALLAS.
IT'S VERY TEXAS.
YOU KNOW, BIG HOUSES DECORATED
WITH LEATHERS AND THERE ARE
SOME ANIMAL HEADS AND DIFFERENT
THINGS.
IT'S--IT'S KIND OF CRAZY.
AND YOU GO THERE,
EVERYTHING IS TAKEN CARE OF.
YOU'VE GOT ALL THE AMENITIES YOU
NEED, POOL, SO REALLY, IT'S SUCH
A GOOD PLACE FOR US TO GO WHEN
WE NEED SOME TIME OFF.
>> SO WE'RE GONNA HAVE FAMILY
DINNER TONIGHT?
>> YEAH, I THINK WE'LL DO--WE'RE
GONNA GRILL, AND TONY AND CARRIE
ARE GONNA COME.
TONY'S GONNA HELP GRILL.
CROCES ARE GONNA COME OVER.
>> BUT HER PARENTS WILL BE
HERE ANY MINUTE.
>> OH, GOOD.
>> OH, OKAY, GOOD.
>> BECAUSE WE DON'T SEE KEVIN
AND DANI FREQUENTLY, I AM SO
HAPPY WHEN KEVIN AND DANI COME
THROUGH THAT DOOR, BECAUSE IT
MAKES ME FEEL OUR HOME IS
COMPLETE.
[knocking at the door]
>> HELLO?
>> HI, MAMA.
>> HI.
>> HEY!
>> HEY, GUYS, WHAT'S UP?
>> OH, MY GOSH.
[overlapping chatter]
>> LET ME SEE THIS GIRL.
>> I KNOW.
HOW YOU DOIN'?
>> SO, UH...
>> [laughing] NO!
[laughter]
>> I'M KIDDING, I'M KIDDING.
>> IT IS SO GOOD TO SEE MY
GRANDFATHER.
I REALLY WANTED TO SEE HIM AND
SPEND SOME TIME WITH HIM.
>> FIRST GRANDSON IS SPECIAL.
>> FIRST GREAT-GRANDCHILD IS
SPECIAL.
>> I WANT TO BE THERE WHEN HE
SAYS, "PAPA, PAPA!"
>> THAT'S RIGHT.
>> NOT "DADDY."
"PAPA, PAPA!"
>> YEAH.
AND THIS TIME IT MEANS EVEN
MORE, WITH EVERYTHING THAT'S
BEEN GOING ON WITH HIS HEALTH.
ENOUGH ABOUT ME, WHAT'S GOING ON
WITH YOU?
>> OH, WELL, I'VE BEEN FEELING
PRETTY GOOD.
YOU KNOW, I GOT A GOOD NURSE.
>> PAPA WAS JUST DIAGNOSED WITH
CANCER ON THE LIVER.
THIS IS A LITTLE HARD FOR ME TO
HEAR, BECAUSE IT'S THE FIRST
TIME I'VE EVER HAD TO DEAL WITH
SOMETHING LIKE THIS.
>> YOU KNOW, MAMA, I HAVE TO
SAY--
>> MAMA, THE RN.
>> IT TAKES A LOT TO DEAL WITH
SOMETHING LIKE THIS, SO I
APPLAUD YOU.
>> IT DOES.
>> BECAUSE I KNOW YOU FEEL
SOMETIMES--PROBABLY FEEL
SOMETIMES LIKE IT'S--YOU'RE ON
YOUR OWN.
>> YEAH.
[laughing] QUITE A BIT.
IT'S HARD, IT'S TOUGH.
>> IT'S JUST, WHEN I'M HEALTHY
IT TAKES A LOT FOR HER TO DEAL
WITH ME.
>> WELL, WE ALL KNOW THAT, PAPA.
YOU'RE NOT A HANDFUL AT ALL.
[laughter]
THAT'S WHAT I SAY ABOUT DAN--TO
DANIELLE, I'M LIKE, "LOOK, YOU
KNOW WHAT YOU MARRIED.
I CAN'T HELP YOU THERE."
>> YOU'RE NON-STOP, THOUGH.
>> YEAH.
MY GRANDFATHER IS ONE OF
FUNNIEST, ONE OF THE MOST
LOVING, ONE OF THE MOST AMAZING
PEOPLE I KNOW.
>> THE DAY YOU WAS BORN, YOU
HAVEN'T SHUT UP SINCE.
[laughter]
[knocking at the door]
>> THERE HE IS.
>> YES!
>> [laughs]
>> WHAT'S UP, BUDDY?
>> HOW ARE YOU, DUDE?
>> I'M GOOD, HOW ARE YOU?
>> GOOD TO SEE YOU.
>> [laughs]
>> OH, YEAH, MY FRIEND.
>> THAT'S SO COOL.
>> LOOK AT TONY.
>> HEY!
[overlapping chatter]
>> BOB IS A FAMILY FRIEND OF MY
FATHER'S AND MOTHER'S.
HE'S BEEN A PART OF OUR LIVES
FROM WHEN I WAS BORN, AND HE
REALLY IS A SPIRITUAL MENTOR FOR
MY FAMILY.
>> I THINK THAT YOU, BOB...
SHOULD SHARE WHAT YOU FEEL LIKE
YOU HEARD FROM THE LORD FOR
KEVIN AND DANI.
IT'S VERY SPECIAL.
>> WHAT ARE YOU DOING, MOM?
WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
>> UH-OH.
>> SHE SAYS, "UH-OH."
>> THERE YOU GO.
[laughter]
>> JUST SAY IT.
[laughter]
I THINK THAT HE CARES ABOUT YOU
GUYS LIKE YOU'RE HIS OWN
CHILDREN, AND HE AND YOUR FATHER
ARE QUITE GOOD FRIENDS, AND ALL
OF YOUR BROTHERS LOOK TO BOB FOR
GUIDANCE.
>> ABSOLUTELY, WE ALWAYS HAVE.
>> OKAY, BOB, YOU GOT THE FLOOR.
>> PLEASE.
>> WHAT IS GOING ON RIGHT NOW?
>> SO I HAD BEEN PRAYING FOR YOU
GUYS A LOT, AND I JUST FELT
IMPRESSED IN MY SPIRIT THAT GOD
WAS WANTING ME TO TALK TO YOU
ABOUT YOU STARTING A FAMILY.
I MEAN, YOU'VE ALREADY STARTED
YOUR FAMILY, BUT HAVING A BABY
AND OTHER CHILDREN ALONG THE
WAY.
JUST REALLY RELAX, TRUST GOD,
DON'T BE STRESSED OUT OR FEEL
ANY PRESSURE AT ALL.
LET YOUR MIND BE QUIET.
>> THIS BABY THING IS JUST
CHASING ME EVERYWHERE I GO.
MY MOM BELIEVES THAT EVERYONE
SHOULD BE A PART OF THIS
CONVERSATION, I GUESS EVERYONE'S
A PART OF THIS CONVERSATION.
>> THE PERFECT TIMING FOR YOUR
CHILDREN WILL COME ABOUT.
IT'LL BE WONDERFUL AND
BEAUTIFUL.
>> WELL, THANK YOU, BOB.
I APPRECIATE THAT.
>> YES.
>> AND I--YEAH.
I FEEL LIKE THAT SHOULD'VE BEEN
TALKED ABOUT IN PRIVATE FIRST
BEFORE IT WAS SHARED WITH
EVERYBODY ELSE.
WE'VE HAD A LOT OF, UM--
>> QUESTIONS.
KEVIN IS STARTING TO TALK ABOUT
A FAMILY NOW.
I WANT A FAMILY VERY BADLY, BUT
I DON'T KNOW IF IT IS THE RIGHT
TIME RIGHT NOW.
>> I THINK IT JUST COMES DOWN
TO, IT'S SIMPLE IN MY HEAD.
FOR SOME REASON, I JUST--I--I--
YOU KNOW THAT FEELING OF, YOU
DON'T KNOW WHY, YOU DON'T EVEN
NEED TO EXPLAIN IT, IT JUST
FEELS RIGHT?
THAT'S WHY I'VE BEEN PUSHING IT
SOME MORE, 'CAUSE IT JUST FEELS
RIGHT.
>> I THINK THERE'S MORE ROOM FOR
US TO QUESTION.
>> YOU'RE UNCERTAIN, AND YOU'RE
UNSURE, AND YOU DON'T WANT TO
MAKE--YOU DON'T WANT TO MAKE A
MISTAKE.
>> WHEN GOD GIVES YOU A CHILD,
IT'S NEVER A MISTAKE.
>> THERE'S SO MUCH GOING ON IN
OUR WORLD, AND EVERYTHING, AND
I'M JUST, LIKE, QUESTIONING,
LIKE, CAN I HANDLE IT?
IT'S LIKE I FEEL LIKE I'M NEVER
GONNA STOP BATTLING MYSELF.
>> THERE'LL BE A PEACE THAT WILL
JUST START GROWING INSIDE YOU.
>> SO IF I DON'T FEEL PEACE
RIGHT NOW, IS THAT A SIGN OF,
LIKE, HIM SAYING, LIKE, MAYBE
IT'S NOT THE RIGHT TIME?
>> IF YOU DON'T HAVE PEACE OF
MIND--
>> SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE I'M
NEVER GONNA HAVE PEACE OF MIND,
THOUGH...
>> OH, YOU WILL.
>> BECAUSE I'M ALWAYS SO ANXIOUS
ABOUT THINGS, AND--
>> WELL, YEAH, WELL--YEAH, IT'S
A WHOLE NOTHER LEVEL FOR HER.
>> I'M AF--LIKE, I WAS ON
MEDICATION.
I'VE BEEN TAKING MEDICATION FOR
ANXIETY ON AND OFF FOR A COUPLE
YEARS NOW, AND IT'S SOMETHING
THAT I DEAL WITH EVERY DAY.
I'M TRYING TO GET OFF OF IT, AND
I'M PRETTY CLOSE, BECAUSE WE
WERE THINKING ABOUT HAVING A
BABY, AND I DIDN'T WANT TO PUT
THAT IN MY BODY.
BEING WITH KEVIN AND BEING IN
THE PUBLIC EYE, IT ADDS TO THE
ANXIETY THAT I ALREADY HAVE.
>> I'M GONNA PRAY FOR PEACE IN
YOUR HEART, AND THAT YOU'RE NOT
GUIDED BY FEAR AT ALL, YOU
DON'T LET FEAR HAVE ANY CONTROL
OVER YOUR LIFE.
GOD'S NOT GONNA PUT ANYTHING ON
YOU THAT YOU CAN'T HANDLE.
>> YOU HEAR THAT?
>> OKAY.
>> THANK YOU, BOB.
>> THANK YOU.
>> I'LL SEE YA OUT THERE.
>> OKAY, GREAT.
>> GOSH.
IT'S STILL HARD, THOUGH, RIGHT?
>> ALL I COULD TAKE FROM THAT IS
THAT I'LL BE OKAY WHEN I'M
PREGNANT, SO HE EASED THAT PART,
BUT THEN, LIKE, I'M AFRAID THAT,
LIKE, OKAY, WHEN YOU START
TOURING AND EVERYTHING...
>> OH, MY GOD, IT'S NOT ABOUT--
>> JOE AND NICK ARE GONNA BE
GOING OUT AND EVERYTHING, AND
THEN YOU'RE GONNA MISS THAT
STUFF, BECAUSE YOU'RE GONNA BE
WITH A BABY.
>> AM I DOING IT NOW?
AM I DOING IT NOW?
LISTEN TO ME, I'M ON MY OWN
JOURNEY.
DO YOU COMPARE YOURSELF TO
OTHERS?
>> NO, I DON'T COMPARE MYSELF TO
OTHERS.
>> EXACTLY, SO STOP DOING THAT
WITH ME AND MY BROTHERS, 'CAUSE
IT'S NOT THE SAME.
THIS IS MY PATH.
OKAY?
THIS IS SOMETHING THAT I WANT.
>> I'M REALLY HAPPY THAT WE'VE
GOT THIS TIME TOGETHER TO HAVE
TEA IN TEXAS.
>> KEVIN AND I DECIDED TO DO TWO
DIFFERENT THINGS TODAY, SO MY
MOTHER-IN-LAW INVITED ME TO TEA.
>> KIRIE, DO YOU HAVE A
SUGGESTION?
>> I WOULD RECOMMEND THE LADY
PRIMROSE--IT'S A CLASSIC.
I LIKE THE HOT TEA, BECAUSE IT
JUST MAKES EVERYONE SLOW DOWN
AND VISIT.
IT'S ABOUT ENJOYING COMPANY TO
ME.
>> MM-HMM.
>> I HAVE NEVER BEEN TO TEA.
I'VE PLAYED PRETEND TEA.
DO YOU LIKE GREEN TEA?
I'M THINKING, THE PINKIES
RAISED.
>> I WANT THE LADY PRIMROSE.
>> LADY PRIMROSE?
WOULD YOU LIKE THIS GREEN TEA,
OR THIS POMEGRANATE TEA?
>> MY GRANDMOTHER WAS FRENCH, SO
SHE'D HAVE HER TEA FOR LUNCH,
AND SHE'D ALWAYS HAVE IT AT
DINNER.
>> I'VE NEVER SPOKE ABOUT TEA
THIS MUCH IN MY LIFE.
>> YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR HUSBAND
GOT MY HUSBAND TO DO TODAY?
>> WHAT?
>> HE TOOK HIM SKEET SHOOTING.
>> DOES HE KNOW HOW TO DO THAT?
>> UM, WE'LL FIND OUT.
[laughs]
IF ANYONE COMES HOME.
[laughter]
>> WELCOME TO TEXAS.
PULL!
[gunshot]
>> YEAH!
THERE IT IS.
>> NOTHING BETTER THAN HAVING A
GUN IN YOUR HANDS.
JUST MAKES YOU FEEL ALL WARM
INSIDE.
>> NICK FLEW IN FROM LONDON TO
SPEND SOME TIME WITH THE FAMILY.
IT'S ALWAYS GREAT TO SPEND TIME
WITH MY BROTHERS OUTSIDE THE
STUDIO.
>> I HAVE A LOT OF GUN
EXPERIENCES.
SOME OF THE ROLES I'VE PLAYED,
SUCH AS MARIUS IN LES MIS, I HAD
TO HANDLE A GUN.
PULL.
[gunshot]
WHOO!
>> NICELY DONE.
PULL.
[gunshot]
>> all: YEAH!
>> REACH OUT AND TOUCH SOMEBODY.
A FAMILY THAT SHOOTS TOGETHER.
>> HEY, DAD, IS THERE ANYTHING
NEW, BUSINESS-WISE, COMING UP
THAT WE HAVEN'T HEARD ABOUT YET?
>> OUR TOUR, RIGHT NOW, THE
ROUTING SAYS WE'RE GONNA START
IN AUSTRALIA.
SINGAPORE, MALAYSIA, MANILA,
JAKARTA, JAPAN.
>> AND TO THAT, WE SAY...
>> both: PULL!
>> YOU'RE GONNA BE GONE FOR
ABOUT FOUR MONTHS.
>> SO DANI'S COMING FOR THE
WHOLE THING, THOUGH, RIGHT?
>> I-I-I ASSUME SO, YEAH.
HEARING THAT I'LL BE OUT OF THE
COUNTRY FOR FOUR MONTHS, I WANT
DANIELLE TO COME ON THE ROAD
WITH ME.
BUT I DON'T KNOW HOW DANI'S
GONNA TAKE THE NEWS.
>> SO WOULD YOU EVER WANT TO
TOUR AGAIN?
>> OH, I CAN'T WAIT.
>> REALLY?
>> I REALLY CAN'T WAIT.
I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD SAY
THAT, BUT I'M ACTUALLY EXCITED,
'CAUSE I KNOW HOW HAPPY IT MAKES
KEVIN TOO.
YEAH.
>> SO COULD YOU SEE YOU, LIKE,
TRAVELING WITH A FAMILY?
>> I THINK BEING PREGNANT ON
TOUR WOULD BE OKAY, BUT THE IDEA
OF HAVING AN INFANT IS HARD.
>> YEAH.
>> BUT I DID IT.
[overlapping chatter]
I DID IT ALL, INFANT, TODDLER.
>> ISN'T THAT SO HARD?
>> YOU CAN'T KNOW UNTIL IT'S
TIME.
>> TILL YOU GET THERE, YEAH.
>> I REALLY HOPE THAT THE BABY
DISCUSSION DOES NOT COME UP
ANYMORE.
I THINK I'M JUST DONE TALKING
ABOUT IT WITH BOTH FAMILIES.
>> I'M SO GLAD THAT WE CAN DO
THIS.
WE NEVER GET THIS TIME TOGETHER.
>> NO, WE NEVER DO.
ESPECIALLY WHEN KEVIN'S AROUND.
>> KEVIN LET YOU ESCAPE TODAY.
>> [laughs]
>> OUT OF HIS CLUTCHES.
[laughter]
>> "OUT OF HIS CLUTCHES."
[laughter]
>> ALL RIGHTY.
THANK YOU, SIR.
>> YOU BET.
>> THANK YOU.
>> [singing] RODEO TIME.
I THINK DANI NEEDS A BREAK FROM
ALL THIS BABY TALK, SO NICK AND
I CALLED UP SOME FRIENDS, AND
WE'RE GONNA HIT THE TOWN,
TEXAS-STYLE.
>> [over P.A.] IN THE FIELD "A"
SKYBOX, IT IS
THE JONAS BROTHERS!
HOW 'BOUT SAYING "HEY" TO
THE JONAS BROTHERS?
[screaming and cheering]
THANK YOU.
>> WHOO.
>> OH!
>> OH, WATCH HIS HAT, WATCH HIS
HAT.
>> OH, MY GOD, HIS HAT!
>> OH!
OH!
OH, RAG DOLL, RAG DOLL.
>> I DON'T LIKE THAT.
>> DEFINITELY A LITTLE BIT OF
CULTURE SHOCK FOR DANI.
>> WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO
YOURSELF?
>> YOU HAVING FUN HERE?
>> YEAH, IT'S NICE.
>> IT'S GOOD TO SEE MOM AND DAD.
IT'S NICE TO BE HERE.
[laughing] I DID HAVE TO SAY,
THOUGH, BABY, LIKE, I WAS A
LITTLE--A LITTLE SHOCKED BY BOB.
>> YEAH.
>> I JUST FELT LIKE MY MOM
COULD'VE PICKED A BETTER
SITUATION TO--
>> [laughs]
>> TALK TO EVERYBODY.
>> I KNOW.
IT'S JUST, LIKE, UGH.
LIKE, YOU WAIT TO HEAR
SOMETHING, AND THEN IT'S LIKE
THAT, IN FRONT OF EVERYONE.
>> IT'S HEAVY.
>> MM-HMM.
>> I THINK THE CONVERSATIONS OF
HAVING A BABY AND WHETHER WE'RE
GOING TO OR NOT ARE STARTING TO
WEIGH A LITTLE BIT ON DANIELLE.
SHE WANTS THIS TO BE OUR
DECISION.
IT'S NOT FEELING THAT WAY RIGHT
NOW.
I'M DONE WITH COMING AT YOU
ABOUT IT.
IT'S LIKE, IT'S NOT FAIR TO YOU.
YOU HAVE TO BE READY TOO.
I'M NOT GONNA KEEP PUSHING THIS.
LIKE, I DON'T WANT TO BE
SELFISH.
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO TALK TO MY
MOM ABOUT THIS, BECAUSE I THINK
IT'S TIME THAT EVERYONE--AND I
MEAN EVERYONE--MY FAMILY, DANI'S
FAMILY--STOPS PRESSURING HER
ABOUT KIDS.
I LOVE YOU.
>> WOULD YOU LIKE A WAFFLE?
>> [sighs]
NO.
I DID WANT TO TALK TO YOU FOR,
LIKE, A SECOND, BECAUSE, I, UM--
>> WHAT'S WRONG?
YOU SEEM UPSET.
>> I WANTED TO BRING UP
YESTERDAY AND WITH BOB.
WHAT HE HAD TO SAY WAS SO
INCREDIBLE.
I REALLY FEEL LIKE I WOULD'VE
LIKED TO MAYBE DONE THAT IN
PRIVATE BEFORE WE DID IT IN
FRONT OF EVERYBODY.
WITH SOMETHING AS THAT AND
SOMETHING AS MEANINGFUL AS THAT,
I FEEL LIKE--
>> WELL, YOU'VE BEEN TALKING
ABOUT IT SO MUCH LATELY.
I FELT LIKE, YOU KNOW, HE HAD A
REALLY AMAZING THING TO SHARE,
AND I THOUGHT IT MIGHT HELP
TAKE SOME OF THE PRESSURE OFF
BOTH YOU AND DANI, AND--
>> FOR ME, THOUGH, THAT ADDS
JUST MORE PRESSURE.
>> WELL, I'M SORRY.
>> YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A MOTHER
THAT HAD BEEN POWERFUL, STRONG,
YOU ARE LIKE ME.
WE JUST GO OUT THERE AND JUST
SPEAK OUR MIND AND TALK ABOUT
IT, AND FEEL HOW IT IS.
THAT'S NOT THE WAY SHE GREW UP.
>> I KNOW THAT WE'RE A VERY
DIFFERENT FAMILY THAN HER
FAMILY.
HOWEVER, KEVIN, I DIDN'T HAVE A
DAUGHTER, BUT I THINK THAT'S
BETTER, THAT I HAVE A
DAUGHTER-IN-LAW, BECAUSE I THINK
THAT THE ABILITY TO SPEAK INTO
HER LIFE AND TO ASSIST HER AND
HELP HER--
>> I APPRECIATE THAT, BUT WHAT
I'M TRYING TO SAY IS, WHEN YOU
SPEAK INTO SOMEONE'S LIFE,
SOMETIMES IT FEELS LIKE A
DIRECTIVE.
>> WELL, O--I ACCEPT THAT,
KEVIN, HOWEVER, WHAT YOU NEED TO
UNDERSTAND IS THAT AT THE SAME
TIME, I WANTED TO TAKE THE
OPPORTUNITY THAT WAS AVAILABLE
TO ME.
>> I UNDERSTAND.
>> DO YOU?
>> YES, I KNOW WE'RE NOT AROUND
ALL THE TIME.
>> SOMETIMES IT'S HARD FOR ME
NOT TO FEEL LIKE--I DON'T KNOW,
I GUESS MAYBE I--JEALOUS, MAYBE
SOMETIMES, I DON'T KNOW, THAT
YOU GET TO SPEND ALL THIS TIME
WITH HIM.
SINCE KEVIN AND DANI HAVE BEEN
MARRIED, WE HAVE NOT BEEN
TOGETHER AS A FAMILY UNIT FOR
A--ONE HOLIDAY AT ALL.
THERE'S REALLY TWO FAMILIES.
LIKE, THE JONASES AND THE
DELEASAS, IT'S NOT ONLY THE
DELEASAS.
I KNEW MY WHOLE LIFE THAT YOU
WERE GONNA BE A MAN, AND I TRIED
TO PREPARE MY HEART.
I TRIED TO PREPARE MYSELF FOR,
"OKAY, HE'S GONNA LEAVE HOME
SOMEDAY, HE'S GONNA BE MARRIED."
I MEAN, I FEEL SOMETIMES LIKE I
KNEW HOW TO BE PARENT TO
CHILDREN, TO LITTLE BOYS, BUT
THIS PARENTING ADULTS IS JUST--
I MEAN, I'M NOT GOOD AT IT.
I MEAN, I GET--I'M NOT EASY TO
BE AROUND.
>> THAT'S NOT--
>> I GET THAT I'M IMPOSSIBLE.
>> DID I SAY THAT?
I DIDN'T EVEN SAY THAT, AND YOU
PUT--THIS IS WHAT GETS ME MAD,
YOU GO SOMEWHERE THAT IT DOESN'T
NEED TO GO.
DEALING WITH MOMS CAN BE
FRUSTRATING, BECAUSE SHE HAS
VERY CLEAR IDEAS OF WHAT'S GOOD
AND WHAT'S BAD, AND MOST OF THE
TIME, SHE'S RIGHT.
MOST OF THE TIME.
>> I FEEL LIKE, AM I EVEN--DO I
EVEN--I MEAN, WHY DOES HE EVEN
COME HOME?
>> 'CAUSE WE WANT TO SPEND TIME
WITH YOU, AND WE LIKE THE TIME--
WE LOVE SPENDING TIME AS A
FAMILY, AND WE LIKE BEING
TOGETHER.
>> IT'S SO EASY TO FORGET HOW
VALUABLE YOU ARE IN THEIR LIVES.
>> DO YOU REALLY THINK I FORGOT?
>> WELL, YOUR GRANDFATHER'S GOT
CANCER, AND YOU KNOW, HE COULD--
WHO KNOWS WHAT TOMORROW HOLDS
FOR HIM?
>> I WOULD'VE LOVED TO JUST
SPEND TIME ONE-ON-ONE WITH HIM,
AND WE WILL, AND I NEED--
>> BUT YOU WENT OUT TO THE
RODEO WITH YOUR FRIENDS, SO--
>> [scoffs]
I NEVER WANT HIM TO FEEL LIKE I
DON'T CARE ABOUT HIM.
>> I KNOW, YOU--YOU'RE HIS FIRST
GRANDSON, HE--
>> ARE YOU KIDDING ME, I--
IT SUCKS, AND I'M NOT HERE ALL
THE TIME, AND I MISS MY FAMILY
SOMETIMES TOO, BUT WHAT IT
REALLY COMES DOWN TO IS, I HAVE
SOMETHING I LOVE AND SOMETHING I
WANT TO PROTECT, AND SOMETHING I
NEEDED--I--BUILDING THAT I FEEL
STRONG ABOUT, AND IT'S NOT HERE
IN TEXAS OR L.A., OR WHEREVER IT
IS, IT'S IN NEW JERSEY, AND
SOMETIMES MY TIME IS SPARSE, AND
IT SUCKS, BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE I
CAN NEVER DO ENOUGH FOR
EVERYONE.
I'M ALWAYS FEELING LIKE THERE'S
SOMEONE OR SOMETHING THAT I'M
NOT LIVING UP TO WHAT THEY NEED
FROM ME.
THAT'S A LOT OF PRESSURE.
>> I GET IT, I GET IT.
I KNOW HE FEELS THAT--THAT
PRESSURE FROM BOTH SIDES OF THE
FAMILY.
I DON'T WANT TO ADD PRESSURE TO
MY CHILDREN.
THERE'S A FINE LINE BETWEEN
ADDING PRESSURE AND HELPING THEM
TO BECOME WISE AS ADULTS WHO
HAVE FAMILIES.
WELL, I'M GLAD SHE WAS NOT UPSET
BY WHAT I DID WITH BOB, AND I'M
SORRY THAT--
>> NO, IT'S FINE.
>> UNCOMFORTABLE FOR YOU.
>> I APPRECIATE IT, MOM.
I LOVE YOU, I DON'T WANT THERE
TO BE ANIMOSITY.
>> GOOD.
>> THE REASON SOMETIMES SHE GETS
SO NERVOUS WHEN HAVING THE WHOLE
FAMILY OVER ARE LITTLE THINGS
LIKE THAT.
>> WELL, WHO WOULDN'T?
I MEAN, MY GOD, I GET IT.
I'M IMPOSSIBLE, BUT I'M NOT--
>> NO, YOU'RE NOT IMPO--IT'S NOT
THAT YOU'RE IMPOSSIBLE, IT'S
JUST--
>> I HAVEN'T ARRIVED, AND I
DON'T--I WANT--I'M NOT GONNA
JUDGE DANI FOR USING PAPER
NAPKINS.
[laughs]
>> I--UH, WHERE DO YOU PUT IT?
YOU PUT IT UNDERNEATH THE, UH,
FORK, OR--?
>> YEAH, I TEND TO PUT THE FOLD,
YEAH, IN.
>> THOSE LITTLE COMMENTS ARE THE
ONES THAT AFFECT ME AND AFFECT
HER, 'CAUSE SHE DOES HEAR THEM,
AND THAT'S WHERE SHE CURLS UP.
>> RIGHT.
I DON'T JUDGE HER BECAUSE SHE
USES A PAPER NAPKIN AND I USE
A CLOTH NAPKIN.
I BROUGHT IT TO HIS ATTENTION,
KIND OF TRYING TO LIGHTEN THE
MOOD A LITTLE BIT, BUT I THINK
THAT'S ALL HE HEARD ME SAY,
BECAUSE IT WAS A NEGATIVE ABOUT
HIS WIFE.
MY MOUTH GETS ME IN TROUBLE A
LOT.
>> I'M GONNA CHECK ON HER.
>> ALL RIGHT.
>> I REALLY GOTTA STOP, LIKE,
OVER-PACKING.
>> YOU TAUGHT ME HOW TO
OVER-PACK.
>> SO I HAD AN INTERESTING
CONVERSATION WITH MY MOM.
>> YEAH, I THOUGHT I HEARD
SOMETHING GOING ON.
>> I TOLD HER--I WAS LIKE,
"LOOK, MOM, WHEN IT COMES TO US
AND OUR DECISIONS, LET US MAKE
THAT CHOICE."
>> HOW'D SHE REACT?
>> WE TALKED ABOUT A LOT OF
THINGS THAT FEELS LIKE HAVE BEEN
PENT UP FOR A LONG TIME, MAYBE.
SHE MADE A COMMENT ABOUT
SOMETHING STUPID.
>> ABOUT WHAT?
>> IT'S NOT EVEN IMPORTANT.
[scoffs]
IT WAS, LIKE, TALKING ABOUT HOW
WE USE PAPER NAPKINS AT DINNER.
>> WHAT?
WHAT, WE WEREN'T SUPPOSED TO?
>> NO, AND THIS IS WHAT I SAID
TO HER--"THAT'S WHAT GETS YOU IN
TROUBLE."
>> SOMETIMES I JUST FEEL LIKE I
CAN'T DO ANYTHING RIGHT.
I LOVE MY MOTHER-IN-LAW, BUT
IT'S SO HARD TO IMPRESS HER.
I'M TRYING TO LEARN FROM HER,
BUT IT'S HARD.
>> IT IS SOMETIMES HARD TO GET
USED TO NEW FAMILY.
>> MM-HMM.
>> BUT I DO HAVE TO TELL YOU, I
WOULDN'T BE WHO I AM WITHOUT
YOU, AND WHAT YOU--WHERE YOU'VE
BROUGHT ME, AND I ALWAYS WANT TO
PROTECT YOU, I ALWAYS WANT TO DO
WHATEVER I CAN TO HELP YOU.
>> NO, BUT SOMETIMES YOU CAN'T,
SO IT'S OKAY.
>> I WANT TO BE YOUR FOUNDATION.
>> YOU ARE, THOUGH.
>> IT'S NEVER GONNA BE EASY, BUT
IT'S ONLY GONNA GET BETTER.
>> WHY?
>> BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT?
I LOVE YOU.
>> I LOVE YOU.
>> I ABSOLUTELY UNDERSTAND WHERE
MY MOM IS COMING FROM, YOU KNOW?
WE'RE NOT LITTLE KIDS ANYMORE,
BUT I HAVE MY OWN FAMILY, AND I
DO NEED TO MAKE THE DECISIONS
THAT ARE BEST FOR ME AND DANI.
>> GET READY FOR SOME VERY
ANNOYING VIDEOS OF KEVIN AS A
CHILD.
>> A BIRTHDAY PARTY!
>> OH!
[laughs]
>> KEVIN.
>> THERE YOU ARE, MOM.
>> [speaking indistinctly]
>> AW.
>> OH, MY GOSH.
>> KEVIN, MAKE EVERYBODY LAUGH.
>> [growling]
[laughter]
>> WHAT DID I JUST DO?
I THINK ME PARENTS WERE SHOWING
US THESE VIDEOS TO REMIND US A
LITTLE BIT OF, LIKE, WHERE WE
CAME FROM, HOW HARD WE HAD TO
STRUGGLE, AND IT'S AN
EYE-OPENER.
>> OH, LOOK AT HIM, AND LOOK AT
HIS UNDERPANTS!
>> IS THAT A CINDER BLOCK WALL?
>> YES.
>> [gasps]
>> THIS WAS THE APARTMENTS WE
LIVED IN.
IT WAS BAD.
>> I THINK IT IS A LITTLE HARD
FOR MY MOM TO SEE US THERE AND
REMEMBER THAT WE'RE ALL OUT OF
THE HOUSE NOW, AND WE'RE GROWN
UP, AND MOVING ON WITH OUR
LIVES, AND--I LOVE MY MOM.
>> ME FLYING AWAY!
>> WHAT ARE YOU FLYING ON?
>> A TURTLE.
>> "A TURTLE!"
>> I'M DEFINITELY LEARNING HOW
TO BECOME A MOTHER-IN-LAW, AND
I'M KIND OF EXCITED AT THE
OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE THREE MORE
DAUGHTER-IN-LAWS, BECAUSE I FEEL
LIKE I'LL GET ANOTHER CHANCE
WITH EACH ONE.
>> WHAT YOU GOT, MY BOY?
>> "A," "B," "C,"
[babbles]
>> [laughs]
>> YES!
[laughter]
>> "'A,' 'B,' 'C,'"
[imitates guitar squeal]
THAT WAS SO AWESOME.
>> GUYS, THANK YOU FOR MAKING
TIME TO COME OUT.
I KNOW IT'S BEEN BUSY, SO TO BE
ABLE TO SPEND SOME TIME MEANT A
LOT TO ALL OF US.
LOVE YOU GUYS.
SO THIS IS A TOAST TO KEVIN AND
DANI.
THANK YOU, LORD.
>> SALUT.
>> SALUT.
>> YOU HAVE TO LOOK IN EACH
OTHER'S EYES.
IF YOU DON'T, IT MEANS SEVEN
YEARS OF BAD--
>> INTERCOURSE.
[laughter]
*** INTERCOURSE.
>> OKAY.
>> DO THEY KEEP SCORE OF THE
PAST?
[laughs]
>> HONEY, GOOD LUCK.
[laughter]
>> NEXT, ON MARRIED TO JONAS...
[fireworks popping]
[laughter]
>> YOU KNOW, SOME THINGS WEREN'T
MEANT TO GO THAT WAY.
>> YOU SURE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE
DOING?
>> OH, [bleep]!
>> "OH, DINA'S GONNA HAVE A
BIRTHDAY PARTY HERE, LET ME DIG
A BIG, MUDDY HOLE!"
>> BUCKY!
I TOLD YOU, NO HOT DOGS.
>> TWO YEARS AGO, MY
FATHER-IN-LAW HAD A HEART
ATTACK.
>> YOU PROMISED THAT YOU WERE
GONNA CHANGE.
YOU PROMISED.
>> IT'S NOT FUNNY ANYMORE.
>> I'M GOING TO HEAVEN, SO I'M
ALL RIGHT.
>> THAT'S NOT FUNNY AT ALL.