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How to Pick a Great Wedding Gift. Buying a wedding present can test your time, patience,
and wallet. Keep it simple, celebratory, and personal, and you'll be a hit with the newlyweds.
You will need A computer with internet access Money and thoughtfulness. Step 1. Couples
register for a reason--they're politely picking out exactly what they want. Using their registry
is the simplest way to get them something they need and like, and to help them complete
matching sets like dishes or silverware. If you worry that choosing from a registry isn’t
personal enough, pick something you can relate to and mention that on the card, like, “Hope
this blender will mix up many of those margaritas we enjoyed down in Mexico!” Step 2. If you
know the couple well and you'd rather not deal with a registry, feel free to make your
gift personal. Go for something special that caters to their interests, like a classic
first-edition novel for book lovers or tickets to a concert for music buffs. Or, just give
them cash. Think about how much storage space the couple has. If they live in a studio apartment,
they probably don’t want a lot of big stuff. Step 3. Do you really want to blow all your
money on a gold-plated doodad? Consider a gift that honors the couple while respecting
your bank balance. It’s ok to give a less expensive gift if you're attending a destination
wedding or spending a significant amount on travel. Step 4. If you're a skilled artist
and you think the couple would appreciate a unique, one-of-a-kind gift, consider giving
a handmade present. It's one thing to give a handmade quilt, and quite another to present
the pair with a last-minute pipe-cleaner sculpture. You don't have to blow your savings, but don't
be a tightwad. Step 5. If you don't know the couple well, go for a traditional all-purpose
-- and easily returned -- present, like a crystal bowl or picture frame. Or give a gift
certificate. Some people use the general rule that the gift's value should roughly equal
the couple's cost per guest at the wedding. Step 6. Even if the newlyweds' taste redefines
tacky, remember--you're buying a gift for them, not you. Give them something suited
to their sensibilities, whatever they are. Step 7. The very best way to figure out what
a couple wants? Ask them or someone close to them, like the maid of honor. Even if they’ve
registered, there might be an item they’re hoping for above all else. Did you know Contrary
to the belief that wedding guests have a year to send a gift, etiquette dictates that it
should be delivered before or within three months of the ceremony.