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STREET JOURNAL" EXPLORES THAT
TOPIC.
>> AND OUR CERTIFIED SEX
COUNSELOR.
COUPLES NEED THEIR ALONE
HAPPY.
I SAY WHAT IS THE SECRET?
NINE TIMES OUT OF TEN IT'S
DIFFERENT COUPLES.
>> AND DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
>> IT'S ABOUT
PERSON
YOU ARE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP.
>> OR THE PERSON YOU BECOME.
>> EXACTLY.
>> THIS WHOLE CONCEPT OF FALLING
IN LOVE MEANS YOU HAVE NO
CONTROL OVER IT.
YOU FALL.
>> RIGHT.
>> STAYING IN LOVE IS AN ACT OF
YOUR WILL.
>> RIGHT.
ABSOLUTELY.
>> YOU NEED TWO PEOPLE WHO ARE
LIKE-MINDED.
SOME PEOPLE LEAN IN AND WANT
MORE TIME.
SOME PEOPLE LEAN BACK AND NEED
LESS.
IF YOU'RE IN THAT TYPE OF
RELATIONSHIP, IS THAT NOT GOING
TO WORK?
>> CAN THAT WORK?
>> YOU HAVE TO NEGOTIATE IT.
>> I THINK IT
AND BE CLOSE TOGETHER.
SOME PEOPLE NEED A LITTLE SPACE.
A LITTLE TIME APART.
>> AND THE RELATIONSHIP MORPHS
FROM WHEN YOU'RE MADLY IN LOVE
AND IN THE FIRE OF THE
RELATIONSHIP, YOU CAN'T STAND
THE FACT WHEN THEY WALK OUT THE
DOOR.
WHAT HAPPENS AS THE RELATIONSHIP
EVOLVES, ONE PERSON GETS
COMFORTABLE GOING, BYE, HONEY,
HAVE A GOOD DAY.
THE OTHER ONE WANTS THAT FIRE
STILL.
THEN YOU'VE GOT A PROBLEM.
>> THAT HAS TO BE NEGOTIATED.
THERE IS A SAYING, FIND YOURSELF
SOME BUSINESS.
IT'S SOCIAL ACTI
HOBBIES, WHATEVER IT IS.
MEN DO VERY WELL AT TAKING CARE
OF THEMSELVES.
WHEN THEY WANT TO PLAY GOLF ON
SATURDAY, THEY PLAY GOLF.
WE CAN LEARN FROM THEM.
>> IF YOU WANT TOO MUCH TIME
APART FROM YOUR SPOUSE, IS THERE
INNATELY A PROBLEM THEN?
>> THAT IS A PROBLEM.
YOU KNOW IN YOUR
HOW CAN YOU NOT?
IT'S ALL IN THE WAY IT'S
PRESENTED TO YOU.
IF I SAY I NEED SPACE FROM YOU
AND DO THAT THING, EXACTLY.
IF I SAY I'M REALLY OVERWHELMED
BY EVERYTHING GOING ON, THE
KIDS, THE WORK, THE EVERYTHING.
I NEED A LITTLE TIME TO MYSELF.
THAT DOESN'T OFFEND YOU.
>> IF YOU SAY PLEASE, TOO.
BABY, BABY, PLEASE.
>> AND BE SPECIFIC.
YOU CAN SAY HONEY, I NEED
WEDNESDAY AFTERNOON OR SATURDAY
TO GO GOLFING, WHATEVER.
INSTEAD OF JUST I NEED SPACE,
THOSE HAVE TO BE SCARY WORDS.
>> IT COMES DOWN TO INSECURITY.
IF YOU WALK OUT THAT DOOR THEY
THINK OR MIGHT THINK YOU'RE
GOING OFF TO SOMEWHERE ELSE MORE
IMPORTANT OR SOMEONE ELSE MORE
IMPORTANT.
>> IT COULD BE INSECURITY.
OFTENTIMES WITH WOMEN I SEE IT
AS INDY.
AS ENVY.
I WISH I COULD GO GET A DRINK
WITH THE GIRLS OR GO PLAY GOLF.
>> YOU LOOK GORGEOUS TODAY.
>> HAVE A GREAT
>>> WE ARE BACK WITH "TODAY'S
STYLE" AND MINI-ME FASHIONS FOR
THE FAMILY.
MATCHING CLOTHES ON A SUMMER
OUTING CAN BE FUN.
YOU DON'T CR
IT, FASHION EXPERT,
GH.
WE TRIED TO FIND OUTFITS THAT
ARE CUTE, COORDINATED BUT NOT
MATCHY-MATCHY.
>> SHEILA AND CONNOR.
THEY ARE
ERS ON
FROM CROCS.
>> THAT'S ADORABLE.
>> DO SOMETHING THAT IS A LITTLE
BIT DIFFERENT.
I L
MOTHERS.
>> VERY NICE.
YOU LOOK ADORABLE.
>> HE LOOKS MISERABLE.
>> THANK YOU.
LIKE THEIR MOMS.
THEY HAVE THE SAME COLOR SCHEME
GOING ON.
>> HOW PRICEY
BUDDY.
>> OKAY.
>> SHOES $15.
>> OKAY.
THANKS, KIDS.
THANK YOU.
>> BYE,
BAG.
ONE IS THE BIG BEACH BAG STYLE.
.
>> I
PARTY IS FLORAL.
DOESN'T HAVE TO MEAN STRAIGHT-UP
FLORAL.
>> LOVE IT.
LET'S BRING EVERYBODY BACK.
>> EVERYBODY WAS BEAUTIFUL.
>> NICE JOB YOU GUYS.
>> UP
>>> HEY, EVERYBODY.
IT'S A BIG TRY DAY FRIDAY, JUNE
22nd.
WELCOME TO AN ENTIRE SHOW
DEDICATED TO REINVENTING YOU.
IF YOU WANT TO.
>> FROM EVERYTHING TO CHANGING
YOUR CAREER YOUR LIKE TO
CHANGING YOUR LOOK AND LIVING
SPACE.
WE GET TO TEST DRIVE NEW
CAREERS.
>> HERE'S MINE.
>> YOU GAVE YOURS AWAY.
>> OTHER THAN THIS 2, I WANT TO
DO TWO THINGS.
ONE WAS TO BE A SCHOOL TEACHER.
I THOUGHT THAT WOULDN'T MAKE
GREAT TV.
THE OTHER IS TO BE A
BAG.
THEY CALL IT THE PUCKER-UP
POUCH.
IF I CAN GET IT OUT.
IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A TABLE TOP
ANYWHERE WHEN YOU'RE
WRITE, WORK
WHATEVER WHEN TRAVELING.
>> CUTE.
>> IT'S AN EXTRA BAG.
>> IT'S AN EXTRA BAG.
WHO DOESN'T NEED ONE OF THOSE?
KLG&HODA.COM.
I GIVE
BOBB.
>> COULD YOU HAVE A DATE?
GET ON IT.
>>> COMING UP NEXT, THE HARDEST
PART OF REINVENTING YOURSELF IS
GETTING STARTED.
>> WE'LL GIVE YOU A BOOST
TELLING YOU
WITH SOMEBODY.
>> AND OUR NEXT GUEST WENT FROM
BEING A POLICE OFFICER TO
STAND-UP COMEDIAN.
>> YOU WERE A LAWYER THE FIRST
TEN YEARS.
WHEN YOU GET LOCKED INTO
SOMETHING YOU GET IDENTIFIED
WITH IT.
>> YOU HANG AROUND WITH A LOT OF
OTHER PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
>> THAT'S A HIGH-POWERED
POSITION THAT YOU WORKED VERY
HARD, PROBABLY SPENT AN AWFUL
LOT OF MONEY TO ACHIEVE.
WHY WERE YOU NOT HAPPY?
>> IT WASN'T THAT FULFILLING.
I WASN'T DOING WORK I WANTED TO
DO.
I WANTE TO BE A WRITER.
I MADE STEPS IN THAT DIRECTION.
>> LITTLE STEPS THOUGH.
>> LITTLE STEPS AT FIRST LIKE
HANGING AROUND WITH NEW PEOPLE.
>> I THINK SOME PEOPLE GET
RAID.
THIS IS WHAT THEY KNOW.
WHAT THEY DON'T KNOW IS OUT
THERE.
OBVIOUSLY, YOU NEED A PAYCHECK.
YOU CAN'T UP AND QUIT SOMETHING.
WHAT ADVICE DO YOU HAVE FOR
PEOPLE ON THE FENCE?
>> FIRST THING YOU CAN DO, WHAT
OUR READERS SAY THE HARDEST
THING IS FINDING OUT WHAT YOU
WANT TO DO.
SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WANTED TO DO.
IT'S A CRAZY THING BUT WE CALL
IT CREATING A BOARD OF
DIRECTORS.
YOU GET GOOD FRIENDS, CURRENT
FRIENDS, MAYBE SOMEBODY WHO
WORKED WITH YOU AND GO BACK TO
YOUR CHILDHOOD.
SOMETIMETHERE ARE DREAMS YOU
LEFT IN YOUR CHILDHOOD.
SOME FOR GOOD, SOME FOR BAD.
>> THEY ARE THERE FOR A REASON.
>> RIGHT.
THEY NEED TO REMIND YOU OF
THINGS YOU LEFT BEHIND.
YOU PUT THEM TOGETHER AND THEY
GAVE YOU THOUGHTS ABOUT WHAT YOU
LEFT BEHIND.
>> YOU HAVE AN INTERESTING
STORY.
WERE YOU
TO TAKE A
TEST AND I SAID ALL RIGHT.
I ALWAYS WENT WITH THE FLOW.
>> YOU WERE A POLICE OFFICER FOR
YEARS?
>> 20 YEARS.
>> YOU DID HAVE YOUR PENSION.
WHEN YOU WERE TRYING OUT THE
SAY
T
THING.
>> IT WASN'T ONE TIME YOU GOT UP
MONEY.
>> PEOPLE DON'T SAVE THESE DAYS.
>> THE OTHER PROBLEM, YOU'RE A
WOMAN.
YOU HAVE A WHOLE NETWORK AROUND
YOU, FAMILY, SOMETIMES THERE IS
RESISTANCE TO CHANGE.
I KNOW YOU THE WAY YOU ARE.
I LOVE YOU, DON'T CHANGE.
>> DID YOU FIND THAT?
>> NO.
I THINK IF YOU FIND NAY-SAYERS,
IT'S TIME TO SPEND TIME WITH
PEOPLE WHO ARE GOING TO SUPPORT
YOU, ENCOURAGE YOU.
>> DUMP THEM.
>> MAYBE DON'T TALK ABOUT YOUR
TRANSITION SO MUCH WITH PEOPLE
WHO AREN'T SO SUPPORTIVE.
>> EVERYBODY LIKES TO BE WITH A
WINNER.
>> THAT IS THE NUMBER ONE THING
PEOPLE ALSO SAY.
DOING THIS BOOK AND WE TALK
ABOUT REINVENTION A LOT, THERE
ARE NAY-SAYERS OUT THERE.
IT'S NOT THAT THEY WANT YOU ILL,
THEY ARE AFRAID WHEN YOU CHANGE,
THAT MEANS I HAVE TO CHANGE,
TOO.
ALL THOSE DREAMS I HAVE BEEN
SUPPRESSING, I HAVE TO DEAL
WITH.
>> LADIES, THANK YOU.
THANKS FOR COMING TO SEE US.
>> CONGRATULATIONS.
>>> WE ARE BACK WITH OUR SPECIAL
REINVENTION EDITION OF "TODAY."
YOU MAY HAVE SEEN MY SHORT-LIVED
CAREER AS BACKUP SINGER FOR LEE
BRICE IS OVER.
NOW IT'S KATHIE LEE'S TURN.
>> THAT'S RIGHT.
I OPTED FOR INTERIOR DESIGNER.
THERE WERE A COUPLE OF
DISTRACTIONS ON MY JOB SITE.
THEY WERE TALL, DARK AND
HANDSOME AND GO BY
ND LEISURE" M
DIGITAL PROJECTS EDITOR IS HERE
WITH US AGAIN.
WE LOVE HER.
MANY PLACES TO
RE
GET A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON THE
WORLD.
TO CHANGE
OR IMPROVE
ERENTLY.
YOGA AND ALL THAT GOOD
AND
PRETEND WE'D WERE MEETING FOR
THE FIRST TIME ON A DATE AT A
BAR.
A TREND
HERE.
>> BRAZIL IS A GOOD SPOT.
>> IF YOU'RE LOOKING TO
>> IT'S BEAUTIFUL.
WHAT ABOUT
FOR YOU TO TRAVEL
R
TEAM SPRUNG THEIR MAGIC.
LUIS LICARI AND JILL
RESTARTING?
>> I SAW HER WITH THE HAT ON
>> HER DAUGHTER LEAH IS HOLDING
>>
SENSATIONAL.
DOCTOR,
MYIKI
HER
DAUGHTER WHICH WAS SO NICE.
THIS IS FROM ANDREW MARK AND THE
HEARINGS ARE H&M.
>> YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL.
PROMISE.
>> SHE IS HERE
>> YOU LOOK
IT.
I LOVE
TERRIFIC.
>> SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL
>> LET'S BRING JULIE OUT.
BIG ROUND OF APPLAUSE.
>> EVERYBODY IS AWESOME.
>> THANK YOU FOR COMING.
>> WE HAVE A STAR-STUDDED
LINEUP.
WE JUST DON'T KNOW EXACTLY.
>> I'M SURE
♪ THAT'S
♪ THAT'S WHAT MAKES YOU
BEAUTIFUL ♪
>> I WONDER IF WE WOULD BE
HAVING THIS
WON.
>> PROBABLY NOT.
>> I THINK THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN
THE DETERMINING
A LOT OF YOU STU
DIDN'T SEE ON THERE.
PEOPLE HAD FUN THINGS TO SAY
ABOUT YOU GUYS.
>> R-RATED?
>> YEAH.
>> THANK YOU, SWEETIE.
>>> GET READY TO MAKE A SPLASH.
HOW TO
WE ARE BACK ON THIS FUN
MONDAY AND TODAY'S BUZZ AND ALL
THE CELEBRITY NEWS YOU
KARDASHIO
THE ROYAL FAMILY.
>> HI, LADIES.
YOU COME TO US WITH BREAKING
NEWS ON THIS SET AS YOU SAID
WHEN YOU
BASICALLY THE
KARDASHIAN/KRIS HUMPHRIES
DIVORCE TRIAL HAS BEGUN.
KIM'S LAWYER HAS FLOWN THERE TO
DO IT.
>> I HAVE A FRIEND WHO JUST WENT
THROUGH A DIVORCE AND USED HER
AND SHE IS
IS THIS THE BEST SHE'S DONE?
>> I THINK IT WAS
KRIS JENNER CALLED THE MARRIAGE
A MEASLY 72-DAY MARRIAGE.
>> OKAY.
LET'S TALK ABOUT THE DAYTIME
EMMYS.
LET'S GO THERE.
WE SAW THE PIECE
E SAW HER.
>> BETHENNY FRANKEL.
>> CONGRATULATIONS TO REGIS AND
KELLY.
EMMY.
CONGRATULATIONS TO HIM, TOO.
>> AND CONGRATULATIONS TO THE
"TODAY" SHOW WINNING YOUR AWARD.
>> WE ARE GOING TO WEAR OURS
AROUND OUR
THAT'S THE SEVENTH TI
WINNING.
>> "JEOPARDY" THE SHOW WON.
WE HEARD DISTURBING NEWS ABOUT
ALEX
RESUMES IN JULY.
>> THAT'S ONLY A COUPLE OF
WEEKS.
WHAT ABOUT THIS RIHANNA/CHRIS
S
WITH THE CLUB OW
ASSAULT.
CHRIS ACTUALLY GOT READY TO
CON.
THAT'S WHEN THE BOTTLES STARTED
TO FLY.
>> SO WHAT ABOUT
TO SUPPORT HIM
AT THE B.E.T. AWARDS.
THEY ARE BOTH NOMINATED THERE.
IT'S A BIG HOT MESS.
>> WHAT ABOUT THE BOX OFFICE?
THE CARTOONS KEEP WINNING.
>> PIXAR, 13 IN A ROW.
>> THROW A BOW AND ARROW IN IT.
>> THANKS, LADIES.
>> THANK YOU.
OR MANY
OTHER PROBLEMS, OUR
DERMATOLOGIST IS HERE WITH
SOOTHING SOLUTIONS.
>> THANK YOU FOR HAVING ME BACK.
>> IT'S THAT TIME OF THE YEAR.
HEAT RASH IS SOMETHING A LOT OF
.
WATCHING THIS CETAPHIL IS
SOOTHING.
DERMATOLOGIST?
>> IF IT'S LOW GRADE, YOU DON'T.
IF IT'S NOT GOING AWAY,
READINE
FLUSH CAUSED BY SUN AND STRESS.
A LOT OF PEOPLE DRINK WINE OR
HOT FOODS.
WHAT DID YOUR MOM GET IT FROM?
>> PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING.
SHE HAS HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE.
>> EXACTLY.
IT'S
--
>> IT'S LIKE AN OVERGROWTH OF
YEAST ON YOUR BODY.
>> OH!
LITTLE BIT.
>> CAN I CATCH IT?
>> STOP LEANING AWAY FROM HER,
TOO.
EVERYBODY GETS IT.
OF THE
MAKE-UP ARTISTS GOING TO TURKS
AND CAICOS.
THEY CAN BE VERY DISTRACTING AND
VERY UPSETTING.
LOTS OF TIMES YOU DO HAVE
CALADR.
>> I LEARNED SO MUCH TODAY.
>> I'M SO GLAD.