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Swimming lessons - is that what makes students successful?
We know that
This is only one little tiny part of what we can do for our kids is give them swimming lessons.
So they look at it from a very big
uh... perspective
They've uh... evaluated
millions
of kids
So, let's look at two critical assets. There are
40 assets that Surgeons Institute
says
children need to succeed. These are 40 things that can be put into their lives think what into their lives
that can help them succeed, and sometimes it doesn't matter whether they are missing listing
three or four of any particular asset
It just matters do they have a pile of these assets in their life, and here are two of them
that are within your control
so here's are two things you can
build into your kids life
Know where they are. Parent Monitoring. Know where they are
uh... what they're doing, who their with and when they'll be home.
And you know that applies a little
differently to a 12 year old
than it does to a 19 year old.
but the same thing applies on the principal
so my sixteen-year-old she has a curfw
you know it's not inflexable; if there's something special going she knows she can talk to some special luncheon she talked to her
Kathy my wife or me
and you know stretch it out
But you know we're trying to be flexible but there is a curfew and like I say you have to be home by 11:30 we see
and on school nights it's different.
And my eighteen-year-old, actually she's 20 now, I say to her
Why, where you going?
It's not that I'm going to run the rules on her
She's often driving my car.
and uh...
So you know, when you coming home?
I don't give her a curfew like I do my 16 year old
uh,
But I want to know
and if she came home at five o'clock in the morning without telling me
we'd have a discussion about that you know?
You know there was no curfew
but something
was going there that I need to know about
And so that's what I'm saying. Parent Monitoring
and it's a really dynamic, organic thing that suites your family
suits your kids, it's not about me figuring out your rules.
Parent Nuturing. Listen, praise their efforts, encourage them,
uh... tell them your prowd of them when they accomplish something
uh... something really significant.
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