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the latest episode of h_b_o_'s girls i had a very controversial sexy not many
people are found very uncomfortable to watch now i have to do with one of the
main characters tightening the add up cool uh... had sex with his new
girlfriend uh... natalia
they were dating for a little while and act but i decided i think i'm ready to
have sex with you in fact let's take a look at what you have to see
inmate affect him
that community something to you that any and
he's been really nice all week so
we we can do it
no i want to un but only a few thank you
he had him
artistic as you know a little bit of backstory he's a really awkward back he
had an act of problem with alcohol
and he went to a angry he met
part but they're and her mother liked him
and said i'm introducing my daughter and in the end of dating
now prior to having sex with her teens having sex with lena dot and scared her
antenna
anyways silver operates acting as a little degrading and salon comfortable
to watch but that was a kind of sex now that's all relevant because of the sexy
or about the show right
so this guy likes wild sex it's up to that sometimes
could be considered agrees
she likes it obviously super clinically in later that siege is like
i don't like soft i think is a getting out of the mood are you need you know
even though my mother taught me judy exactly donnie not in the light like all
these rules writen and he's not that kind of guy nuances along with uh... so
it's like um... i would ever do that
but then
he after seven years of sobriety
yes truck one
let me go back to his apartment for the first time as a mass
the mishap yes lets it go
you know forms
you know
all worse
home of the room
he sharpens
for works
resource on malika movement
isn't it
jesus still dizzy
we can't really things i need to it reassures and i was shocked
they actually said not on the dress and so it
he goes on a testament showed
the result which i've never seen on television yeah okay that made people
very uncomfortable i have to be completely honest like eight
i guess it made me a little uncomfortable but i didn't see it as
that big of a deal so let's plan on the deportees but because we don't care
about them but what's interesting
is that i have a good relationship that's so some people say
that was not processed
now i think that goes
waitting for as that guy super awkward yes
did he not reverse side as well
no he did not okay
night in that in that in his place
he should've been able to detect it he saw the whole scene there
hey you know what she's not super comfortable with this in mind that this
one a ask a couple questions before you go for right
the other hand from his perspective
he's done that kind of sixty four
another women evidently
so he's might have been thinking especially you know that
is like maybe she's into great
i don't think she was intuit exceed what he did was
rwanda's obviously if it had to miss you seemed uncomfortable throughout because
the most important part events like weddings i don't like that right
but now when people say
made up straight
i think that's crazy with weight i think all your rate definitely goes too far
and uh... you know i don't know if i may get hate for this but this was a my
perception as i watch that entire episode and and that particular scene
still wasn't clear with him
uh... and because of the position that they were an animal
as the deal where you see her facial expressions you see that she's cool
clearly uncomfortable
which is not clear in in stating that she does not want that you see what i'm
saying so she instead of saying i don't want this please stop she goes
audience showered today which could be perceived as i'd like this that i don't
know if you're going to be comfortable with the fact that i didn't shower today
later she said that while he was giving her or yes so i mean that's not bill
that's not have sex that's abuse early not clear
you you have to be
absolutely clear
as to what you're comfortable in uncomfortable with and i'm not looking
i'm not saying it
i don't know i i don't know if that's going to be perceived as robert you just
have to be clear because if your if you don't say no i don't want this and you
say something like ally having strong today that could be perceived in the
wrong way it could be interpreted in the wrong it once enter here that would
include the onus on
women you re anyway
like in the guy has to be responsible to and he's got a b
c that he has to be clear
you know responses centers right
you know
if you think about actually harassing right but that is for the people were
saying it's right
arresting prosecuting the answer
now
he was supposed to know for sure
the really to ship
and that doesn't mean that you can
you knobs until six p relationship
but iteration of this
some assumptions straight yes
right anything all the sudden you say no
there are no substances like the just met her and also in the for down on the
bed
in use are having sex with her
well that's a different situation in this situation
where she seemed to be consenting throughout
even as she showed some discovered et cetera olson that's ***
again i just think that that's what
waiting for and also look the only thing that could make me feel
candidly interaction and and and not lenient direction of reporting on the
like argument that someone could make
is you know at the end he basically says i don't know about it to me which is
kind of like a confession that
you obviously did something that was uncomfortable because the
i think what he did was holy encore well that's about the statement right and
i'll be should have done that this issue in a sense
that she was a really comfortable with bright but not being copper with
something in the middle of a consensual
relief ongoing relationship is different than the rate
so upbeat i would say hey that baggage you've got nobody right and
and i'll hop on her side if she's
complaining about what happened internally no question
right no quick
but if you go to rest the guiding eyes to no well look
as a matter of legal standard
for non consensual sex
i mean you put a lot of subs on that
at yale ***
uh... first off of missus concluding from yes he's deter your own
uh... protection himself
presentation yeah
the completely clear weather is nice happen
uh... so
i mean for four di in a position and you have to since things
yet completely but it's a lot
if you know some excuse right wingers is what it was it's what people can sale at
times or shooting okay so
any other crime to do when you drinking it's still a crime
artist
kya
so i mean a yes it's it's hard to through call rate but if you're looking
to not be in trouble
unita notice everything is cool and when you're doing something the series
and sex isn't the most important thing in the world at the heart and i have to
because and what we're still humans
is like this uh... the stock mechanism doesn't work
or even noticing mechanisms work
if you don't have it
you have a problem
it may be *** someone before
at in the sounds really harsh but
it's very simple just that
pick up on science it's not that hard to do did really simple and send them
making some
no i agree on that
at the same time
if u regulator
then what you're going to take care of reporting
on pins and needles like wheat
they so nobody can be dominant i mean or you know i have like a contractual
agreement had atomic world contractual agreement
and i will be duplicates explain with you
and this is really this is the hot parkway right
how did your consent that sounds very literally ordinarily do signs of bread
with
productivity
bilbao's unremitting succeeding in the history of mankind
they get on all fours
yeah i'd like to write like isn't like fifty shades of gray weary signed a
contract and i will tell you what you just right
that doesn't work
keep doing it's like and how do you know i don't agree with that and just kind of
a second courses she said not comfortable with it at the beginning at
your local for a lot better
noted warm up to it is not a beloved that you should stop we all agree to
that
but is that
can you prosecute the guy for that i'd say help
so and
the he hears i think that's it for everybody
and i got kids race on at the target audience
be as clear as you can be right saw it as a knuckle heads
the close to the stupid
and or just give it because somebody's telling you do something you feel
pressured whether it's societal pressure or pressure in a relationship
at the same time gerri's ready said this on t_v_
uh... under the car show unique doctors science and tell them
you know what you like that she might have to pay the same thing you're
thinking
so you gotta be incredibly terrible take care personnel
don't make his subjects
and at the same time
we also
have to go through education process is sidi so that we don't care on either
side so we're not
you know making assumptions
well this is what i want to get right and at the same time we're not all
you know signing contracts before we make a
liquidate so there's gotta be a balancing act